Courting dating definition

It is a practice run of making the formal decision to forsake all others on the day you exchange vows.

In courtship, you do forsake all others, but not as a vow, but rather as a trial run.

You have realized you want to be married and have learned more about yourself and the kind of person you are attracted to from your dating experience. In fact, they unfortunately allow themselves to cheapen their offering by showing they only want to sample, and never purchase. I know a man who told me he goes in there to have lunch by partaking in all the sample stations, and then leaves.

As if Costco is in business to hand out free lunches. To “sell” the product they are allowing people to sample.

They are putting themselves out there to sample in hopes to find a buyer.

However, among Christians, you still hear “courtship” and “dating” used interchangeably; indicating that many single people find the terms to mean the same thing.

Why would anyone use the term “courtship” when they are simply “dating”? Some Christians find the word “dating” to be a negative term due to their secular counterparts using the term excessively.

For many, dating is a form of entertainment, something to do with one’s free time.

It is completely possible to date someone with absolutely no intention of considering them for marriage.

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