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When I step into a predominately heterosexual establishment, I feel like I have to be on guard and really careful with the people I choose to flirt with. HIV impacts everyone, no matter your sexuality, but it's still a hot button issue in the gay community, especially in dating.People are too quick not to go on a date with someone because of their status or will refuse a second date once they find out.Am I saying no to all the other guys who might be the one I want to spend my life with?I feel like I only want to date someone who I am 100% convinced I'll be with forever." —Craig, 21 "Between Grindr and talking to people on all the others, it takes up a few hours a day. When you are constantly texting multiple people and don't respond to one, you get the infamous question mark text. It's just a lot." —Taylor, 22 "Because of dating apps, you can find out where a guy works, what kind of company he keeps, and all the places he's lived before even meeting him.Queer men are varying shades of the rainbow." —Chris, 25 "I went from a 225-pound fat boy to a 145-pound athletic guy.
On the other hand, it sucks because there's less for you to discover from spending actual, in-person time with him." —Dylan, 29 "When 'Masc4Masc' and 'Straight Acting' are no longer a thing, then a lot of our dating problems would be eliminated.
[...] While I have generalities of what I want from being in all the different relationship structures, I can certainly tell you that one size does NOT fit all. The relationship I want with one man is not exactly the same kind I'd want with another." —Zakh, 26 "I remember, after an extensive chat online, meeting someone in person, and they were nothing as they described.
Their pictures were years old, and we didn't have the same interests/conversations we had online.
I was becoming attractive, to the point where other guys were staring and had lust in their eyes.
To say I wish I was a big boy again would not be too far from the truth.